A newcomer's story

[justjudy]

Now I am thinking I am the weirdo Floydman coz I just posted on your thread about your W and the laundry and didn't see I was asking the same question myself about my H. How can we be so wise about other's sitch and so clueless about our own!

I worry about D11 though, not sure what to do. I don't think its ok. When she is with H I text or phone every day, just simple things like saying good morning or goodnight or asking how her day was. Just so she knows she is in my thoughts. She has her own cell phone so it's easy. she has already said to me "it doesn't even feel like he's really my dad anymore" broke my heart. I know their relationship is not my responsibility but D11''s mental and emotional health is very much my responsibility.