Okay I need a little advice. Today my D14 was at my house with a friend who spent the night. my W decided to take them to the movies, which I do not mind obviously. However, I was not informed that she was picking her up from my house. Then she fed them dinner at McDonalds at 4pm. That is when I get off work, I was going to come home make dinner and then play games with D and her friend. Why would my W feed her dinner right before I get home to make dinner??? I need to say something because this is becoming a habit, no consideration for me. Thinking about talking to her tomorrow. Gonna approach the subject in a calm detached way. Tell her I would appreciate a heads up on things because I had plans for us and her feeding dinner right before I come home is rude. Any thoughts??
At first I was irritated and snapped a little at me D. it was not her fault so I checked myself changed my attitude and played trivial pursuit for 3 hours with her and friend. They enjoyed themselves, because I was less of an ass. My daughter and her friend were laughing and making me have to answer the question three times correctly before getting a pie. i was irritated ad should not have let my W control my emotions then I started to take it out on my daughter. Uugghh, at least I noticed this time and corrected myself.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
