House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 2)

[FloydMan]

Since the summer we have agreed that she is not to do my laundry or anything for me. W has made this proclamation several times since and I have asked her not to do it. She keeps doing it. She did it today. My clothes are in my own hamper in my room and I am blessed enough to have plenty. Not like it was needed. My room and my space is kept tidy. Hers is not. Why would she keep doing it? I have done my own laundry since I was 13 and lived on my own before marriage. We even had this laundry debate about a month ago as she made point that she still does it and I told her not to. She misses bill payments and many other obligations she has for herself but does my laundry instead. She won't look at me or talk to me but does my darn laundry. Our d10 has been away for two days but W has not even reached out to her. But she does my laundry. Wtf? Is she that mixed up?