Thanks for the reply FY. He moved out in July, I was upset and confused and didn't know what was going on for awhile - started lighthearted texts in Sept with funny pics etc which was out of character for me anyways. I love to laugh and have fun but we've been in a serious mode for the last 18 months at least. But that all stopped in mid Oct when I found out about OW and we haven't talked since. We've exchanged a few messages about the kids but only about the kids. Actually - kids & I went to disneyland for Christmas and he actually initiated a text and asked if we were having a good time. I replied honestly that yes, we were having a good time but it's strange being there without him & there are a lot of disneyland memories that have been tough. No reply, I guess it was too much. He sent me an email today about updated medical insurance for the year. I guess I should be glad I'm not kicked off the insurance yet. He doesn't see his kids at all and it really bothers me but I don't want to get in the middle of their relationship anymore. He thinks he's a great dad but it's only because he's always shown up to all the events when I told him to. Now that I'm not telling him, he's off the radar. I don't know how to proceed!
