Anyone have DB advice for the point in the process where the WAW is, in her mind, completely done with the marriage? Same course? She said she doesn't want to work on things, doesn't have an answer for the fact that we never tried. In her mind, she jumped from unhappy and not communicating about problems to abandoning the marriage. If your spouse leaves and you don't have any interaction with them, how are DB'ing efforts supposed to work (aside from being strategies to help the LBS move on)?
If I am told jumping into the atlantic and swimming to england would fix things I would do it. ____________________________ "In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer." -- Albert Camus
Me:39 WAW:38 M:9 T:19, No Kids EA/PA with co-worker:9/24, ILYBINILWY, S:9/25 EA/PA on hold? (probably not), MC 9/30-now
