Lil'G, Occasional emails are ok, as long as you don't pressure. If you're just briefly informing him of a highlight or two of your day that's ok. Always be upbeat and positive.

"I hope your day is going well" is less threatening to a spouse who is no longer sure about the M than "I'm thinking of you". Also, avoid questions unless absolutely necessary. You don't want him to feel any pressure to respond.

If "he's sure you are thinking of him", maybe you need to show him you are doing fine on your own. Let him know about the new and exciting things going on in your life.

Remember, your goal is to have him chase you.

Good job on GAL, keep it up. Maybe take a course, start a new hobby, or try something new. Actually having an interesting life will do wonders for you, and is very attractive to others. Bust On!

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl