Congratulations on the weight loss. It's better to do it slowly than quickly.
Dancing is fun and a great workout. They offer a number of good Wii dance cd's out there.
You are going to have a wonderful and positive year!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.