Trust me, it is not easier when H is being awful. Maybe it's easier to feel you want to walk away, but In my case, I have internalized all the awful. Not fun. At least there's some hope in your sitch. Your H and you are friends. My H is nothing close to a friend.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page
Sorry I have been away a few days. I see you seem to be doing well still and I am happy to read that.
Yes back away, I agree. Do you have fabulous plans for the weekend?
How is the belly ring doing?
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Also hope you have some GAL plans for yourself this w/e. No need to dwell on what your H may/may not be doing--it won't help at all.
I like how you set very specific goals regarding comm w your H, like NC until Sunday. Agree that your texts should be shorter & less emotion to them.
Overall I am impressed w your handling of your sitch w OW involved. I feel like throwing in the towel some days as I don't feel like H will ever stop R w OW...time will tell for us all.
((((HUGS)))) -littleGTO (formerly turtlegirl)
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
Sorry I have been away a few days. I see you seem to be doing well still and I am happy to read that.
Yes back away, I agree. Do you have fabulous plans for the weekend?
How is the belly ring doing?
Belly ring is awesome!!! My GAL activity at ski hill commences tomorrow. Very excited! And then not so,exciting laundry Sunday lol. But did extend a dinner invite to h on Sunday after he drops D off. Also offered to pack to go dinner ( so no pressure )
Hey GTO. Getting there faster?lol. What am I to do? You know? Can't change the sitch, can only change me. H texted today that I seem softer, more relaxed and more like I used to be. I just said " thanks"
Trust me, it is not easier when H is being awful. Maybe it's easier to feel you want to walk away, but In my case, I have internalized all the awful. Not fun. At least there's some hope in your sitch. Your H and you are friends. My H is nothing close to a friend.
You are right Regretful, and it really was a stupid thing to say. (((()))
Busy GALing today but will come home and catch up on switches
Yesterday H texts me that matthew McConnaughy is filming here in spring. I have told H that I have a short list f men who could eat crackers in my bed. It only consists of two people and matthew McConnaughy is the other lol!
Anyway I said, have you seen his wife? My work is cut out for me.
He replied, so is mine. Big you seem softer, ore relaxed, more like you used to be.
I am sure that he meant,,his work is cut out to get me to not be loving him anymore, but it is nice to know recognizes the changes.
