Thank you, Andrew, for stopping by. I know what a hard time you're having. It might be because I'm so angry and hurt, but I feel that I can't wait till this D is over. I don't want to see my H or be friends at any level. This might change over time...but now, this is what I feel.
I feel stupid for hanging on to the hope for so long. I wish I had ended things when he first had the A. I also think DB works in earlier stages of marital problems, and not at the point where I started. After all, the LRT is called last resort bc you're basically done but you're trying one last thing, which has a small prob of succeeding. At least I know there have been a few success stories...but it all depends on what the book says: sometimes your S has really shut the door to the M, and no LRT will work.
