I am happy that you let me know that you changed your name so I can continue to follow your story. Our stories are so similar its scary. I have to say it took me a long to to detach. - About 8 months. I am now not as lonely at night. After H leaves, I watch TV that I want to watch. I talk with a friend on the phone or I read these forums. Someone once told me to write a gratitude journal every night. Write down everything you were thankful for on that day. I don't write it down, but I do think about it each night before I go to sleep. Its then that I realize, yes this situation [censored], but I am going to be ok. I have a lot of other things going for me. I try to focus on the other positive things going on in my life rather then this negative situation. It helps re-direct my thoughts.
Me 38 H 39 M13 T18 S6 S9 Bomb Drop 11/11 Moved Out 7/12 Still have hope. No OW that I know of..
