Carole,
Why must YOU leave...he should leave if he is unwilling to stop communication w OW.

I have to say that since H has moved out it is easier for me in that I don't have to wonder if he is communicating w her right under my nose. That was sooo stressful. I know he is comm. w her/ even planning a future w her (he told me).

I agree going dim is the best option. My comm is now limited to talk about the kids only, unless he initiates convo otherwise.

Good luck, Carole. And, yes, I can always use a buddy! smile

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.