Any thoughts out there on my sitch? W and I have not spoken any words in a week. Pass each other occasionally but avoid each other. My gut tells me there is OM in play. Not 100%, but fairly sure. She has not put her fair share of $ in the joint account for bills, expenses etc in a while. This was our last convo a week ago and it was not a pleasant one. She wants me to leave her family alone. I sent her parents a 50th Anniversary card and she was very angry with me for that. Yet, she sends Christmas and birthday gifts to my nieces and nephews. I pointed out the hypocrisy and it only made the convo worse and then the $ disagreement.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
