Hi Dawn,

I can relate to a lot of what you are saying.

Having our alien H still at home is tough. It's hard to detach when their craziness is in your face on a daily basis.

My H has also shown the self hatred, a lot of it. He definitely knows something is wrong, just can't seem to figure it out.

I see him telling you how angry he is as a good thing, an attempt at communication.

My favorite new mantra... I am so glad I'm not him!!!

Keep taking those baby steps on your own journey smile

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."