W's birthday is coming up on 10th. Should I be buying her a gift? Actually, should I give her the gift I have bought her. It was a 24oz cold cup from Starbucks. It was on her wish list for Christmas and our S/GF couldn't find it. So, I asked our local Starbucks and they had just gotten a shipment in. As of now, she is planning to come over to the house for her birthday. So, my MIL has her something, my S has her something, and my son's GF has her something. So, we have all bought/made her something for her upcoming birthday. W got upset yesterday when I told her our S wasn't sure if he wanted to come over to where she is currently staying. She got a little defensive and I have not heard from her since then. It's not my fault so I'm not worried about that. W doesn't talk to anyone about sitch but her male friend, her female best friend, and OM. MIL tells me to GAL...go out and meet and make new friends both male and female. I am trying. Money is tight so I am trying to reconnect with our church and just get out myself and do stuff myself.
It's hard, but I just feel that God is going to restore our marriage and make it whole again. It's just His timing and ways are not our timing and ways. That makes it difficult, but understandable and sometimes a little unbearable, too.
M: 48 (2nd marriage) W: 47 (1st marriage) T: 22 M: 21 D (M, 1st Marriage: 26) D (M, 1st Marriage: 24) S: 18 EA: 31 Dec 2004 ILYBINILWY: 31 Dec 2004 In all things give thanks to God; I thank you God.
