Had a bad phone conv with my H (I don't even feel like calling him H anymore.) He was really upset about the late date. He said he can't move on with his life and this is so hard on him. I said, "poor you." Couldn't help it. Told him how awful it was to have some guy from the court show up at my house and tell me my H was suing me. I said I didn't want to go to court. He said he didn't want to either. I told him this was his project, so he needed to finish it up and do whatever it took. Now he just sent a couple of emails bashing the L and asking to do the papers himself. Whatever. I don't want to have to do anything with him at this point.