Cold Fire

[leopoldstotch]

What a difference a few days make. I decided to talk to my W about what her plans are for moving out and all she says at first is is that she is "working on it". So I told her that I can't live like this anymore and that I would like her to leave by mid Feb. Well I knew that wasn't going to work well as she got became angry and told me that her name is on the mortgage too and that she is still paying bills. I told her that I don't want to be one of those couples who just live like this and she says why not, lots of people do and I said that I'm not one of those people and that it isn't healthy for us to be like this.

My W then proceeds to go right back to the past and says that we haven't gotten along for 25 years, I thought to myself that she is again revising history but did not tell her that. At that point I just told her that I won't continue the conversation when the past is brought up. She then proceeds to ask me if I put one of my supposed friends up to texting her, I had no idea what she was talking about.

This morning she shows me texts from this "friend" about how he has a crush on her and has since the day he met her and that he never liked me and two of our other friends. He was trying to get her to meet up with him but she flat out told him to leave her alone she has enough to deal with. It's unreal how a supposed "friend" tried something like this. Needless to say but I won't be speaking to him at all. This has completely ruinied my day.