Carole how are you going to go dark with him still in the house? My H said the same thing about MC. I think my only way is for me to leave this time. Not tell him where I am. Only commuincate with my kids through my sister. He pays for the cell phone so I would just leave that and get a basic talk and text one. That would be the only way I could go dark completely. I hope he comes to his senses for you! If you ever figure out why they are so stupid please share smile


M-47, H-46
M24, T29
S19, S17
OW since 2007
Fighting ever since
H left 8/12
H home 11/12
still seeing OW