Walking the path to my own happiness

[dorightman]

Hi Regretful, I feel you. I wrote an email to w yesterday after a bad MC session and I told her we could go to the mediator, divide assets, and I would get my own place and move on. This morning when i woke up, I had a change of heart, again.
I'm afraid to tell her because I already did this in the past, and she doesn't trust my words anymore.
I like the advice your getting from the other folks here. Be careful about the influence of your therapist. A lot of them are only interested in helping you out as a single individual. I know thats important, but if you value family, you have to consider that too.

Maybe you could keep doing the work on yourself a little while longer and not worry about your H. Keep your longterm goals in mind, focus on you and your kids. Remember its a marathon, a fricking LONG one!

I know you want to love and be loved. I want that too, I'm sure we all do. But the short term solution could fizzle out and you could be left with no way back, your kids may be more confused, I don't know.
It's so hard, i'am struggling with the same sitch as you.
I don't want to give up, but at the same time, I want to be able to give and receive love.
Take your time and really think things through before you make any moves.