Kimmerz, I agree with the other posters, i.e., file away the emails and let it go. It's his way of keeping a connection w/you in his own crazy way. If you were to say something to him, it most likely would get worse rather than better, so just look at the subject lines and if you already know the information, file the emails away. Many times, the mlcers will go from one extreme to the other and what he's doing is being a "chatty cathy" so to speak. Some teenagers do go through this type of stuff and I susepct your xh is one of them. I honestly do not think he's doing it to bug you at this point.
Yes, you will see many facets of his personality while he is touring the universe. One minute you may have a glimmer of the old xh, another a young tot and so forth. It's all part of his processing his issues and being integrated into one person at the end of the crisis.
I know that you are done and you want to move on the best way possible, but you've still got the children who need to interact w/their father. I would like to suggest that you read the postings of MyTurnNow. She had two children and they were young when her xh walked out the door and she had some pretty frustrating times as well.
It will get easier as time goes on, but what will help is if you can look at his missives as just postcards from ET.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
