Time to go completely dark...was told I should write one last email or do one last phone call...short direct and to the point..continuing contact will result in me leaving...but am going to talk to my DB coach about this first...said it in person...after a while he tunes me out...just wish someone could get through to him. HIs daughter wants to call him and tell him to get his head out of his A$$..but don't think that would make a difference. SHe has already told him he has been lowered in esteem in her eyes, and that hurt him deeply.