It is OK to be guarded.

Remaining open leaves one a little vulnerable. It is natural to protect a bit. Use the shield, sheath the sword and minimize expectations negative and positive.

Kudos for taking the 1st step toward your father.

24 days was a long time in an enviorment that has been toxic, but as you said there was learning and this means growth. I'll wager it was not one sided.

((((Val))))


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill