I saw a great idea...a jar that you fill with notes or small blessings...

you fill the jar throughout the year and then on new year's eve, you open the jar and read all your blessings

my daughter has learned to say

"I yub oo"

which is now her response whenever she does something remotely mischievous. After 3 1/2 years of waiting to hear those words, she could use them to get away with a lot smile