Why on earth is your X doing this to you still AJM? I mean that's absolutely insane how she's constantly saying one thing to you then saying or doing another. Intrusive without reason is exactly what it is!
Perhaps that's what XH thinks he's doing, following the contract to the letter, but thats not in the divorce papers. All thats in the divorce papers is he gets the girls on his days off. I guess another thing that's so insane with him is I will get these emails about details. But if I have to email him with a question, he won't answer me.
For example the issues with the cell phones. I asked him a simple question, how much is it a month? He never answered. I asked him why he didn't tell me it was such a problem to pay the bill. He never answered. But in the same breath it's ok for him to dump all sorts of scheduling and pick up times for the girls.
It makes me feel like he's trying to control just what we will and will not discuss, and it's up to his discression. I have no say so what so ever. Im to just go with what he dishes out and take it whether I want to or not.
Quite frankly I find our communication is a one way street. It's his way or the high way.
I see it as a mind game, and I refuse to play. I find him purposely ignoring my inquiries as degrading and devaluing to me as a person.
