Been having some good encounters with my H. We're definitely talking a lot more when he's home and it's very enjoyable. We're talking about health, work and family. Over the past few months, H would say "don't worry about me" or "I'm fine." Now a days, he is open to my asking how he's doing and if he needs me to go to the store and pick something up for him (while I'm out anyway, no special trips).

Today, he admitted that his burning the candle at both ends has finally taken a toll on his health. He's pretty much picked up the flu. I had to go to the pharmacy to pick up my meds and offered to get his cough drops. He told me that he actually picked up 2 bags (1 for him and 1 for me) and was going to bring it home to me tomorrow.

Yesterday, he was home and told us that he'd be home next on Saturday. I asked him about tomorrow night (Friday). He asked why and I reminded him about my company's "Adult" party. H said "oh yea, I'll see everyone Friday." I'm so surprised and happy because he is still planning on going with me to the party.

Some additional small steps forward. I'll take it.

Me39 H35 M8 T14
Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me.
End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter
6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file
1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home
3/13 Changes mind