Hi, NLW, Changed my name from turtlegirl to littleGTP (H was spying on all my posts!).
Maybe you could have S14 suggest something he would like to do w his dad, rather his dad forcing last minute plans on your S. That way it might be something they both could anticipate.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.