Ruby, I'm impressed with your insights and attitude. Yes, keep going.
Also, I agree your H just wanted to mention something as the reason for his leaving (the sex and the clean house?) They sound as excuses. It's like my H saying he left bc I went to bed at 10:30 PM. There's always a deeper, more complex reason in the background. So don't worry too much about that, but listen anyway. At least you know some of the things that matter to him.
