Wendy, that's a great suggestion. I just poked around a little and I really like the thought process. I stole this little tid-bit from Katie:
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And you may think that if you divorce him, then you’ll feel good. But if you haven’t investigated your thinking, you’ll attach these same concepts onto whoever comes into your life next. We don’t attach to people or to things; we attach to uninvestigated concepts that we believe to be true in the moment.
If we don't fix us, we just repeat the same behavior over and over. And someone new isn't going to fix you....only you can fix you.