Ready: I know that...the wounds can't heal if he is in contact...I know he has written the farewell letter, said goodbye and said no contact, and he hasn't, it is her who has contacted him. But he never stopped it, figures they could be friends, with no threat to me...as in his mind he is never leaving me...was never going to, still loves me...just doesn't understand why I should be threatened..dumbass. I just wish he could understand taht the constant contact pushes me away and makes me feel like giving up, yet, if I do then she wins...the kids already hate her and have lost respect for thier dad. Not sure what to do to be honest, If I go dark, then it is like I condone thier contact, if I walk away, she wins, I lose, but do know that if they are in contact, it will destroy us..and our family...and told him so. Just don't know what to do anymore...it is a no win situation.
