Carole, if he does not give up contact it won't work. I am living your life now. H told me the same thing, wants his cake and OW! I feel just like you, I am tired of being second in his life. He can lie to me and not even flinch, says he will never leave me but then tells OW they will be together come hell or high water. Tell sme he has not texted or talked to her when I saw a text an hour before telling her he loved her. She keeps sending naked pictures of her self to him and he loves it! He has his family and her and I am totally losing my mind.
I am letting him do this to me so I have noone else to blame, I just wish I could walk away and not look back. I want to call her so bad and tell her I know about the pictures and wonder if her H knows what they are doing. It is about him and it will never change.
M-47, H-46 M24, T29 S19, S17 OW since 2007 Fighting ever since H left 8/12 H home 11/12 still seeing OW
