As I am reading this, I feel you have written my entire life story. I can't believe how similar our stories are with regards to where our H's are in this process except I am not getting any gifts and my H is very hopeless that the marriage can work.

My H has been living away for 5 mths. I am not giving up on the marriage, however I can't wait forever. My kids are so confused and cry every night about when he's coming home.

I have no advice, but wanted to offer big hugs. Please keep us updated.

H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14