Absolutely right ^^^ Remember this is his issue. He's like a teen that is trying to get his way and is trying to hurt "mom".
I dunno, I think some of the emotions are coming from the part of this being a defining moment. The action part of it all.
That said, the rational part of your brain knows that you have him by the short hairs. The only way he can try to defend is to attack. He is not worried about the truth - he is focused on hurting you and will do anything to achieve that goal.
He is in a very weak position, WH. Relax. You've done the work, now stay out of the way of the results. They will be what they are, and you'll deal with them as they come. But I honestly think you'll walk away much better off than you can imagine. With any luck, the judge won't allow him to return to your house today
Focus on you and your kids. You would do anything for them right? Right. Now do so and you can deal with the rest once you and they are out of harm's way.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
