Hi all. I've been reading this board for a couple of months as anonymous. I finally logged on. My wife is going through MLC and seems like a Low Energy Wallower. The emotional detachment feels like death.

I had to write in when I read the original post. It resonated so much with me. It actually made me angry because I'm going through all of it and I'm just now realizing how little effect everything I've done so far has had on her. I have started doing a 180 and DB'ing, but sometimes I get so weak.

I have read so much on here that has helped me personally so I want to thank all of you for sharing your stories, fears, hopes and vulnerabilities. They really do help even if you don't know who's reading them.