Ok so we had a follow up conversation regarding moving on. My W doesn't want to break up the family but will not put effort in our marriage because she doesn't feel anything.
For me that would be an unacceptable situation. Personally I would tell her that she either needs to show some willingness to work on the M or she needs to leave. There are plenty of threads on here from people that are in a torturous limbo because they're stuck under the same roof with a spouse that is done with them.