Hello! Well your sitch is very similar to many others here including my own except in my case we were married a lot longer. You're proceeding in the right direction, read DB or DR and settle in for a long haul. Remember that this isn't a sprint, it's a marathon. You've got to do 180's on whatever your problems were that contributed to her unhappiness and you've got to stick with them. Don't expect an overnight turnaround, it'll probably take months before you see any signs of progress. Try to be patient. Do get the anxiety/ depression addressed because that will be a huge stumbling block until it's under control. Good luck!
