Almost Over...

[Dewayne]

Yeah. Thanks for the 2x4's.

Thanks to you guys I have realized my problem. I said it before. I get flustered when I'm with her. I have all this DB and 180* down pat BEFORE contact, get to contact, it goes out the window. I'm usually a fast learner, but I guess in this kind of situation I'm very very slow.

I did make a GREAT move! I had a notebook with things I wanted to do, like play a game of questions and statements. it's a game we use to do back in the marriage and when foreplay was boring at times. When I parked, I took the tablet and threw it on the dashboard and left the pen in the truck! YAY ME! lol. About the only dam thing I did right last night.

yes, I read DR. Twice. I read sandi's rules. I get them NOW... i get them when I'm HERE at home.... when the txting hits, I already sparingly reply. I have that down. The calls, I don't call her. Last night I did after I left to apologize and she said don't worry about it. I did text when I got home because I needed to know what the dentist appointment was about (for kiddo)

Its just, the sh.t goes otu the window when I see her. She makes me so flustered I can't explain it. Not all of the night went bad. Maybe I should get a tattoo of "DB" on my hand so I can remember lol.

I'll study it more today after shooting face and get more comfortable.

Thank you so much for the help and 2x4's.