My Fears in GALing

[newman7977]

Thanks for catching up Galbaby I hope you're doing well in your sitch. No not taking it the wrong way at all, it's good to see your perception. Thank you.

Update:

So I had more Convo with W. somewhere in there it is very clear what I want. I want a wife not a roomate. I express to my W that if she's going to stick around she will need to do some work in our marriage as I have my part in it as well. I want an intimate relationship with her and not just a friend. I will be loving towards her but not in a smothering way or needy way. You know being a husband and Wife.

I'm not trying to control her she can leave if that's not what she wants and I'm ready if she make that decision. But to me it's time to shift the sitch.

I will be consistent in a loving way and re assess in 30 days. I also told her if she will stay that she will need to put our wedding ring back, and so i put it on her finger and she says ok.

I left work and came back from work with a kiss on the lips and a hug. So far so good. I'm going to take take a break from the boards and will update in 30days. I actually feel relieve and it's very clear to me what I want. I have no more fears.

Thanks for reading,

Newman