but don't fool yourself into thinking anger, or hurt or loneliness are detachment.
Huh, I think this is what I'm currently doing and what I was considering detachment.
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I don't know if you should move or not move (but I would say if she's the one who wants out let her go. That's her dream, not yours)
She won't move which doesn't make sense to me but she won't budge on that. I even told her I'd handle all finances on house so she could move clean and clear if that's what she really wanted to try.
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Live your life, nothing has to be decided today or next week even. See what happens but don't let your discomfort with your emotions push you to do something you may regret.
Good point (from all you guys). I think I'm going to take a little time off and let the emotions of telling kids cool off and reassess in a couple weeks. I know I likely would regret if I left now.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
