How will telling her your hurts from the past will help you today? How will it help her?

Our feelings are ours to deal with and reconcile.

But... It also says if your brother(sister, W) offends you, go and tell them, alone, and If they listen, you have regained them.


It doesn't say continue to plow old ground. I agree that going forward, you should work on your issues as they come up. And not just with your W, with everyone.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss