Originally Posted By: rubytuesday
Originally Posted By: labug
Keep the focus on you, Ruby.


Yes. Do not change plans for H or text him even though I want to.....initiated emails have been him, but am warm and fun when I reply smile



You're doing great but it's sometimes easy to get side-tracked into taking our S's inventory. It's a 12-step term but it simply means, listing someone else's faults and trying to help them see the error in their ways. We want to fix them and then OUR lives will be better.

It's an attempt to control and fix to allay our discomfort.

But it takes the focus off our work.

Keep on keeping on.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss