This says that even with fixing the two things above, he probably would have left. That's a pretty low mind set for him to be in. A little scary. I wouldn't want my H coming back around after that. Sounds like he wants to be a college boy again. _________________________
Yup, he was/ is still done. He is not sure who he is I think and what he wants. It took a lot of guts to say that statement and I admire him. It tells me that he has to work this out himself in all aspects of his life. The best gift he actually gave me was to leave, because it forced me to look long and hard at my own behaviour and my own life. He hasn't done that yet and if he ever will, who knows?
