TGirl, focus on meetups that are not necessarily for people who're separated, but for everyone.
Subguy, you're right. On New Year's Eve, after the conv we had, my H still tried to undress me. I said, what are you doing? He said, "undressing you." I said, "that's cake eating." He was all confused and asked what cake eating was. I said he could figure it out on his own. After a few minutes, he got it. He wasn't happy. I thought it was funny, and thought of our group and the terms we use on this board.
Andrew, I leave on Monday. I only made one change, and extended my stay at a hotel two more nights so I only have to stay with my H's uncle for four nights. I feel better this way. I will tell him the price/night was lower if I stayed longer (which is true.)
Don't worry, I'm not a screamer. I actually can't remember ever yelling at anyone.
I still feel sad and unmotivated, but maybe a little less...will let you all know how the meeting with the L went.
