Ruby, I am new here. My first post is still in moderation. I can relate to your words that you cannot project that you don't care and let your H think that your life is great without him. I think I have the same issue. I've been trying to detach, but sometimes I'm afraid that he will think that I don't care at all. I admire your strength. It’s been 6 months since BD, but I think I’m actually doing worse now.
Hi Bright, thanks for stopping by and lending some support. I will make sure to drop by yours. For me, the persona of not giving a sh&t and doing everything myself and pretending that nothing bothered me was one I built over years. It's taking some hard work on my part to say I care. So I let him walk his own path and hope that ours will become the same one. But at the same time, I know I have to put myself first, always. I also know that I have to move forward. If H wants to join me, we will see what happens. If he doesn't , then I will be sadder, wiser and still moving forward
