BeingMe, I like your resolutions, especially the one about writing.
The new year will be a more positive and productive one for you because you are now moving forward by taking large steps toward your divorce and your new life as a single woman.
Happy New Year!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.