I don't know if I agree with you Tori that a separation is almost always a bad idea. I know that in my sitch, we need to separate if there is to be any peace between us, married or not. We simply can't live together any longer, and a separation may put some things in perspective.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
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