Beyond that, KD, it's not really a discussion I care to get into though, sorry.
That makes perfect sense and is understandable.
I understand that you are here because you want to make the best for your son and that it is up to you to make sure that is so.
To be perfectly honest with you, because that's how I am, I expect you to either avoid this question completely, or completely berate me for even suggesting such a thing, so I am just putting it out there for you to ponder on your own.