Had to create a new topic I guess. Link to original posts is above.
Hope it works.
Definitely dinner with the lady does not count as GAL RegretfulLA. I spend a lot of time with my kids and do things. More than W. Am definitely there for them more. I have not talked to her in 6 days. She has not brought up dropping the price of the house and avoids conversation with me too. I did come across some notes she wrote when I was using the printer in the office. Looks like notes from a coaching or counselling session she had. I felt guilty so I did not look at the whole thing. All I saw basically was that she was sad and she was being coached on how to move on. Huh. To me she does not come across as sad but rather angry. To the kids I can tell she is putting on a phony happy act. I spend a lot of time with them, especially d10. We are gearing up for a long litigation process re; finances and custody/access arrangements. I will not give up my kids. GAL is needed and do some things, but I will not abandon them for that either. I am the responsible one in this that is for sure. Not being self-righteous, that is just the circumstance right now. Two women, who are single sent me Happy New Years’ notes right at midnight. They know my sitch and I know they have an interest in me and have expressed it. They are very attractive and professional, hardworking ladies. Nice ego kick, but I am not ready.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
