read Crimson's post to you carefully. You might also want to read his recent post on his thread...
and why I called him a "hero". He's a brave man who has genuinely changed for the better. He went from being a mediocre inconvenienced father, to a great one who is loved and thrilled by his son. The feeling is mutual.
we know his ex wife sees it and in my opinion, she WANTS to believe it's real AND forever, but she's afraid it isn't.
THey have other issues, and she's not perfect, but you could learn a lot by reading his words.
Also Bruce, your w's "debasement" of you in the divorce petition is not reality.
Except for a possible memory failure on your part OR hers, about pushing the car
pretty much every single thing she said had some validity to it, or a lot.
Don't revise the truth b/c you are hurt.
(We know it when we see it b/c we have done it ourselves).
Hiding from the truth only delays/prevents the growth.
Be brave Bruce, you can do this. You can grow and improve b/c of this, in big deep ways.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
