You are not too late MLC take a long time Sounds like your 180 are already helping One suggestion: dont leave the home..If H needs to leave, let him find a way to get the money together keep things as stable as you can for the kids Watch the finances very closely watch the credit cards..take your name off the cards if you see usual excessive spending Mlcers will spend themselves into debt with no concerns about the kids or future Take care of yourself and the kids get enough rest and sleep, eat, exercise find a few girlfriends to talk to at night if your lonely He may blame you for everything, but mlc is about unresolved childhood issues not about the spouse Many MLCers do have affairs and it is so painful and hurtful for the LBS but OW are just bandaids..the mlcer will try to escape from his pain it doesnt work keep posting there are also many good books like jim and sally conways book on MLC Good luck Peace
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