Many (most)people I know (H's sister included) when they learned that we were separated expressed surprise when I said "he left me."

Hmmmmmm

Let go of what things might mean or how people interpret what's going on, the only people that matter in this are you and H.

As I said earlier there is lots of life to be lived in the space between black and white and right and wrong.

Those concepts limit us.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss