I will get by....

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks so much guys. I get home and the house is in sheer chaos!!! D is having another meltdown, refuses to eat and is acting out against H. I am sure he thinks that is my fault too. He is making her go to bed early and she is fighting him tooth and nail. I heard her screaming bloody murder and shouting "you're the worst dad ever!!" I am not rescueing him. Of course it's me who creates the dysfunction and chaos. Obviously it's him.

I have to get my kids and myself out of this situation!!! It's completely unhealthy. Help!!!